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	<title>Comments on: How Hard Do Bloggers Work?</title>
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	<description>Web Publisher, Pro Blogger, Internet Entrepreneur, Techie, Nerd, New Dad</description>
	<pubDate>Sat, 11 Oct 2008 09:56:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Tracy</title>
		<link>http://www.davidrisley.com/2008/05/07/how-hard-do-bloggers-work/#comment-322</link>
		<dc:creator>Tracy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 May 2008 16:55:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>While I am nowhere close to being a problogger, I still put alot of work into my blog in hopes of one day going pro. I schedule time that is absolutely blog-free. I may have an idea or see a product I wish to review during my downtime but I make a small note to myself to research it later. It's great to be passionate about the your blog  but having a well rounded family life will pay off more in the end.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>While I am nowhere close to being a problogger, I still put alot of work into my blog in hopes of one day going pro. I schedule time that is absolutely blog-free. I may have an idea or see a product I wish to review during my downtime but I make a small note to myself to research it later. It&#8217;s great to be passionate about the your blog  but having a well rounded family life will pay off more in the end.</p>
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		<title>By: rmalloy</title>
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		<dc:creator>rmalloy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 May 2008 16:49:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>First of all... 

Congratulations on being able to allow your wife the opportunity to stay home and raise your child. I think that is wonderful!! 

Second...
I'm not a blogger, pro or otherwise, but I was a stay at home mom and often found it frustrating when my husband would come home from work and then retreat to the basement and do more work! It wasn't until I found something I was crazy about (making jewelry) that I could actually appreciate spending copious amounts of time engrossed in my work.

What if you were to help your wife start a blog of her own? It could be on a subject she feels passionate about. Obviously, she wouldn't be able to devote as much time as you do to yours, but she would get an appreciation for what you do. At the same time, maybe you could do a role reversal for a day. (the internet world will not collapse without you for a day) Let her blog all day or go to a spa or do something she would like to do ALL THE TIME and you take care of the baby. And no running to her when the baby needs something you aren't sure of, just deal with it. Get an appreciation of each others job. 

There is no right answer that anyone can give you. Every marriage/partnership is different. 

Try being more available. Cut the evening integrated work/family time to an absolute minimum. We women all know our men are not multi-taskers, so even though you want us to think you are spending time with us, we know better and want better. 

Lastly...
Blogging is undoubtedly hard work,  but so is raising a family.

Your work is not your life... it may be what you do for a living, but your life is your family. Which one are you more prepared to lose?</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>First of all&#8230; </p>
<p>Congratulations on being able to allow your wife the opportunity to stay home and raise your child. I think that is wonderful!! </p>
<p>Second&#8230;<br />
I&#8217;m not a blogger, pro or otherwise, but I was a stay at home mom and often found it frustrating when my husband would come home from work and then retreat to the basement and do more work! It wasn&#8217;t until I found something I was crazy about (making jewelry) that I could actually appreciate spending copious amounts of time engrossed in my work.</p>
<p>What if you were to help your wife start a blog of her own? It could be on a subject she feels passionate about. Obviously, she wouldn&#8217;t be able to devote as much time as you do to yours, but she would get an appreciation for what you do. At the same time, maybe you could do a role reversal for a day. (the internet world will not collapse without you for a day) Let her blog all day or go to a spa or do something she would like to do ALL THE TIME and you take care of the baby. And no running to her when the baby needs something you aren&#8217;t sure of, just deal with it. Get an appreciation of each others job. </p>
<p>There is no right answer that anyone can give you. Every marriage/partnership is different. </p>
<p>Try being more available. Cut the evening integrated work/family time to an absolute minimum. We women all know our men are not multi-taskers, so even though you want us to think you are spending time with us, we know better and want better. </p>
<p>Lastly&#8230;<br />
Blogging is undoubtedly hard work,  but so is raising a family.</p>
<p>Your work is not your life&#8230; it may be what you do for a living, but your life is your family. Which one are you more prepared to lose?</p>
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		<title>By: Aravind</title>
		<link>http://www.davidrisley.com/2008/05/07/how-hard-do-bloggers-work/#comment-320</link>
		<dc:creator>Aravind</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 May 2008 16:10:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yes David. This is indeed a problem.

At present, I cannot be called a proBlogger as I am still in my school (infact, the last year in school!).

Even then, I've had experiences like the one you wrote above. It was my mom, who didn't understand what I was doing. All she saw was, me sitting infront of my computer for hours.

You Asked:
"How do pro bloggers deal with their significant others who know nothing about blogging?"

I tried to convince others about what I'm doing and I somehow managed to make them understand that I'm not doing nothing Stupid, atleast.

In my opinion, these problems could be solved through talks. But, the problems must be solved at the earliest.
:)

And, I LOVE MY MOM, My Dear MOM</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes David. This is indeed a problem.</p>
<p>At present, I cannot be called a proBlogger as I am still in my school (infact, the last year in school!).</p>
<p>Even then, I&#8217;ve had experiences like the one you wrote above. It was my mom, who didn&#8217;t understand what I was doing. All she saw was, me sitting infront of my computer for hours.</p>
<p>You Asked:<br />
&#8220;How do pro bloggers deal with their significant others who know nothing about blogging?&#8221;</p>
<p>I tried to convince others about what I&#8217;m doing and I somehow managed to make them understand that I&#8217;m not doing nothing Stupid, atleast.</p>
<p>In my opinion, these problems could be solved through talks. But, the problems must be solved at the earliest.<br />
 <img src='http://www.davidrisley.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>And, I LOVE MY MOM, My Dear MOM</p>
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		<title>By: Scott Ford</title>
		<link>http://www.davidrisley.com/2008/05/07/how-hard-do-bloggers-work/#comment-319</link>
		<dc:creator>Scott Ford</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 07 May 2008 15:51:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Full time teacher, just completed my course work for a masters, have two blogs, and the Mr. Ford's Guide to the A+ Certification Exam podcasts on iTunes.  
Husband, father of two young boys (3yrs and 1yr).  Time is definitely a precious commodity.  
One day a week it is family time, and only family time.  The other days of the week we try but if I get to spend more then 1 hour of quality time per day I am lucky.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Full time teacher, just completed my course work for a masters, have two blogs, and the Mr. Ford&#8217;s Guide to the A+ Certification Exam podcasts on iTunes.<br />
Husband, father of two young boys (3yrs and 1yr).  Time is definitely a precious commodity.<br />
One day a week it is family time, and only family time.  The other days of the week we try but if I get to spend more then 1 hour of quality time per day I am lucky.</p>
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